Often, the ‘problems’ we see in others are just projections of our shadow; the parts of ourselves that we have banished to the depths of our consciousness that we disown. So the ego projects it onto other people and makes it into a ‘problem’ that we have to help THEM fix.
This is all an illusion. Look inwards, see the shadow for what it is. And then shine your light of consciousness inwards and outwards. Be the example for others to see. Be awake, be present, be conscious. And others will naturally radiate towards your glow.
Be the light that you want to see in others.