The curse of ‘should’.
One of the worst plagues on humanity that has ever existed. Thinking that we ‘should’ have done something. Thinking things ‘should’ be a certain way. Assuming we ‘should’ be a different way. Hating ourselves because we ‘should’ be like everyone else.
We hurt ourselves every day with this curse. It makes us fucking miserable, hating every second of life because we say it ‘should’ be a different way to what it IS.
Life becomes so much easier when you stop placing the curse of ‘should’ on yourself. There is no ‘should’. It’s a bullshit perspective made up by humans. Nothing ‘should’ be any way. Everything is just the way it is.
You don’t HAVE to do anything. You don’t HAVE to be anyone. You are just the way you are and are doing exactly what you’re supposed to be doing.